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Marriage is the union between two individuals who have agreed to live together as husband and wife. It is beautiful to see people get married but the questions now is are they ready to spend the rest of their lives together.
Marriage nowadays is flashy and looks appealing but do not be deceived not all that glitters is gold, many have ventured without having adequate knowledge or preparation for the task ahead which leads to divorce and some even loose their precious lives.
Today we will take a dive into some of the things you need to have as a lady before marriage, it can be physical, emotional, or psychological. I hope you find it helpful:
1. Learn How To Cook.
There is a saying that the way to a man's heart is his stomach and its quite true because no man would love to come back home and meet a disaster as food for him to eat. even if he loves you more than his mom when you can't cook it will be very difficult to keep him for long.
Learn to cook not because it shows how domesticated you are but it makes you capable of getting something set when you don't feel like eating out.
2. Learn Some Important Skills.
As you prepared to get married you must set skill goals you want to achieve, skills like driving, swimming and others can go along way to help you in you marriage journey as long as you will be having kids and we all know how much trouble they bring to our lives due to curiosity.
When this skills are available you do not panic and stare but take action to salvage the situation you may find yourself.
3. Know Why You Want To Get Married.
This may sound a little off but that's the truth, ask yourself why do i want to get married, find out whether you Love your partner or the idea of getting married that excite you, do you really want to spend the rest of your life with them or you just want to wear the wedding gown and have a big fancy party or you think you are growing old so you have to get married. It's important to know what you really want before you take the leap into marriage.
4. Learn To Be Accommodating and learn to compromise.
Disagreement in relationships are bound to happen and you need to have the skill set to be able to fight fairly and not push your agenda only, learn to compromise this only shows you are willing to go far in the relationship.
5. Get Heartbroken
I know it may sound funny and weird but that's the truth you need to experience heartbreak because it makes you strong and more careful when taking steps. It make you know what love actually is and and opens your eyes about life and love.
6.Talk Money With Your Partner
Someone may ask why would I talk money when we are not yet married, wouldn't it seem i am only interested in that? The simple answer is No talking about money and how you are going to plan you post wedding activities is important so that you will know what to expect and how you will leave your life, plan how much you will spend and how much to invest.
I know you have learnt from what i have shared with you and you will take action on them, i hope this will help you in your marriage.
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